I moved from Syracuse to Kansas City 3 years ago, and I definitely don't regret it. Granted, I was newly married, but also had a 3 y.o. son, and no jobs lined up. We just packed the truck and drove off! (Yes, I still have the husband and son, and we're doing well.)
I think determination has a lot to do with the outcome. We did have help moving here from family who lived in the area, but we wanted to be on our own ASAP. Within 10 days my husband landed a job, and we had a loan and a contract on a house within 3 months. The house we bought is very affordable; less than our apartment in Syracuse.
Since then, we've been pinching pennies so that I can stay home while my husband goes to college. It's not glamorous, but it's getting us where we want.
Loneliness is an issue because it takes time to build relationships as familiar as ones you already have established. If you can hold out for a year or two, though, you should be fine.
I'll tell you, though, my poor mom REALLY misses me, and her grandson.
Goodluck and keep us posted!
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